Anna LaValle Blog
Why Being Yourself is Holding You Back
Adopting an attitude of, “That’s just how I am, and I’m not willing to change,” can jeopardize marriages, friendships, and career prospects. It can make life harder and push people away.
What “Be Yourself” Actually Means
“Be Yourself” is actually a good advice. But it is important to know that it doesn’t mean being static or refusing to change. Instead, it means maintaining core integrity while growing and evolving.
Change Yourself Without Being Fake
So how can we be “true to ourselves” while transforming into someone better?
We can reconcile these seemingly contradictory pieces of advice by creating a balanced approach.
Think of your identity as having two layers:
Who Am I?
Our evaluations of ourselves. It involves how you see yourself, how you think about yourself, and how you feel about yourself. Is your belief about yourself accurate?